When I was a boy growing up in Milan, Tennessee, I had a
special stick horse whose name was Pete. And, during those summers of
boyhood, I rode old Pete all over my grandparents’ farm in the Graball
Community--around the apple trees, up the hillsides, under the walnut trees, by
the blackberry vines, through the cotton patch, down by the pond, to the
mailbox, and through the hallway of the barn (which was located on the site of
the old Hammonds’ School). That trusted and faithful old stick horse
would take me from one end of that farm to the other. At that time in my
life I thought their farm was one of the biggest farms in the world!
Pete and I would always go by the pond so he could get a
drink and I could dismount for a short rest, lie on the bank of the pond, watch
frogs jump in and out of the water, and bounce dirt clods across the shimmering
surface of the water. We would then make our way back to the front yard
where I would dismount and lie in the shade of those unforgettable old oak and
maple trees and watch the clouds float by overhead. When the pears were
ripe, I’d pluck one, wipe it on my jeans, give Pete a bite, and then I’d eat
the rest.
By the time Pete and I had made our way to those familiar
trees in the front yard, in my wonderful childhood imagination, I had rounded up
all of the outlaws, saved the wagon train from an Indian attack, herded hundreds
of wild horses into the corral by my shack in the canyon, and panned about three
sacks of gold from the stream which ran from the mouth of the old mine.
I can still see myself lying there, carefree, stretched out
on the ground, straw hat lying beside me, my hand resting on our Collie family
pet, and a gentle summer breeze blowing across my face.
My childhood imagination allowed me to go anywhere on my
stick horse. I can remember many nights when I would sit for long periods
of time, looking at the moon and stars. I was so fascinated with the
mystery of what was out there, and, there were many times when I hopped on my
stick horse, and, together, Pete and I would set off on a flight to those
faraway places.
Part of the thrill of living is the cultivation and use of
our imagination. However, if we do not use this precious gift, we can
easily lose it. We can get so caught up in our routines, pressures,
schedules, and responsibilities that our childlike wonder and fascination
evaporate, leaving only a dead shell of existence. This can happen to any
of us, and it is sad when we permit this to occur.
Play, wonder, and creative imagination are important.
These priceless qualities of our minds help keep us alive. Playful
imagination motivates us to be creative and spontaneous. It enables us to
be in touch with ourselves, others, the creation, and God. It helps us
constantly grow and enter the deeper dimensions of life each day. It keeps
us alive, aware, and responsive to all the many things which are happening
around us. And, it enables us to have a full and rich life.
Each year life gives us a new summer which is always filled
with endless options and countless opportunities to be caught up in the
excitement and thrill of living! We can choose to make this a special time
for remembering and re-living those beautiful and happy memories of childhood!
So, join me and old Pete in this venture. Ride
alongside us. Let yourself go. Let that little girl or boy that is
within you play a little. Kick off your shoes and socks. Loosen your
tie. Give yourself permission to enter that magical world of imagination,
and play a little. Climb onto your own stick horse and gallop with me and
Pete out to the stars? If we choose to do this occasionally, we will be
more prepared to make this a better world and live a much fuller and happier
life! (DHL)